The Upstate New York Divorce Law Blog

  • A growing trend in New York is split or joint residential custody of children.  This is an arrangement in which the child or children spend equal time, or roughly equal time, with both parents.  This is done through something as boldly simple as a schedule that alternates the children with each parent for one week [Read More]

    Published On: March 18th, 2016
  • There are two types of custody to be considered.  First is residential custody; this is with whom the children will reside.  Second is legal custody; this is who will have the authority to make decisions for the children. Residential or physical custody is the right of a parent to have his or her children reside [Read More]

    Published On: March 15th, 2016
  • Joint legal custody creates certain obligations and responsibilities of parents.  Joint legal custody requires that parents cooperate with each other for the benefit of their child or children.  Joint legal custody imposes upon the parents an obligation to behave in a mature, civilized and cooperative manner in carrying out the joint custody arrangement.  This means [Read More]

    Published On: March 10th, 2016
  • We continue our exploration of child custody matters with a review of custody terms.  We start with "Legal Custody."  Legal custody is the authority of a parent to make decisions for their child.  These include, but are not limited to, decisions regarding the child’s education, religion, medical care, discipline and place of residence. Legal custody [Read More]

    Published On: March 8th, 2016
  • Today we examine custody agreements and custody litigation.  Custody agreements almost always are preferable to custody litigation.  Custody agreements generally are more likely to succeed than an order that is the product of adversarial litigation.  On the other hand, custody litigation has significant collateral consequences.  Custody litigation is among the most unfortunate of circumstances for [Read More]

    Published On: March 4th, 2016
  • Custody agreements almost always are preferable to custody litigation.  Custody agreements generally are more likely to succeed than an order that is the product of adversarial litigation.  On the other hand, custody litigation has significant collateral consequences.  Custody litigation is among the most unfortunate of circumstances for adults.  Short of the death of a parent [Read More]

    Published On: February 10th, 2016
  • Today I am starting a series of posts about child custody matters.  Custody matter are among my least favorite domestic relations matters.  When custody is litigated, the children always lose.  As a parent I find this unfortunate.  As a professional, I find this distasteful.  However, I do not shy away from custody cases because if [Read More]

    Published On: February 5th, 2016
  • This is the second in a series of articles about New York’s new maintenance law.  So far we have discussed that New York’s new temporary maintenance law has two variations, which depend on whether or the payor will be paying child support.  In this post we will apply the formulas that I have written to [Read More]

    Published On: December 2nd, 2015
  • New York State's New Maintenance Law changes the way courts must address temporary and post-divorce maintenance.  This may be the most important development in New York domestic relations law in many years.  This series of articles will examine the new law.  It will start with the provisions for temporary maintenance. The new provisions for temporary [Read More]

    Published On: November 17th, 2015
  • When discussing custody of children, the first consideration always should be the child or children.  Too often the adults make themselves and their conflict, pride and dysfunction, the main considerations and driving forces in custody cases.  This usually results in the child or children suffering as a result of the conflict between the adults.  Even [Read More]

    Published On: October 30th, 2015